Moving to Australia is an exciting journey, but it comes with new customs and expectations. This is especially true when it comes to getting along with your neighbours.
For many Filipino migrants, the idea of pakikisama (getting along) and paggalang (respect) is already deeply rooted in culture.
These values can serve you well in Australian neighbourhoods — but there are also new things to learn, such as legal expectations, social norms, and local etiquette which some Filipinos may not be familiar with.
This guide aims to help you understand what to expect from your neighbours in Australia, and more importantly, what they expect from you. Whether you live in a suburban house, a shared rental, or an apartment complex, the basic rules of neighbourliness and mutual respect apply.
The Aussie neighbourhood culture
Australians generally value privacy, quiet, and friendliness — but they may not be as socially involved as neighbours back home in the Philippines.
It’s common to greet neighbours with a “G’day” or a nod when you see them, but people often keep to themselves unless there’s an established friendship.
However, Australians are also known to be helpful and kind when approached politely. Aussies often volunteer at local charities, help out at community sports events, or assist in bushfire recovery efforts, showing a strong sense of community support and willingness to lend a hand when needed.
What you can expect from your neighbours
You may be surprised by how respectful and quiet Australian neighbourhoods can be, especially during the evening. While you shouldn’t expect daily visits or tsismis (chit-chat) over the fence, here are common positive behaviours you can usually expect:
Basic courtesy
A simple “hello” or small talk about the weather is a typical way to build rapport.
Respect for boundaries
Australians highly value personal space. It’s normal to have minimal interaction unless mutually initiated.
Noise control
Most neighbours keep music, power tools, and parties within acceptable hours.
Pet management
Most people keep their pets under control — dogs are leashed, and barking is usually addressed promptly.
Help in times of need
While not guaranteed, some neighbours will offer help if you’re visibly struggling — such as when moving in or during emergencies.
Keep in mind that these acts of neighbourliness are not universal or automatic, as some people may be more private or less inclined to socialise.
What your neighbours expect from you
Being a good neighbour is not just about kindness — it’s also about complying with local laws and showing consideration. Here’s what’s generally expected of you as a resident:
Keep the noise down
Loud parties, karaoke, or power tools are not welcome late at night. Councils usually set noise curfews:
- Weekdays: Quiet hours typically begin at 10 PM.
- Weekends: Slightly later, often 11 PM.
Dispose of rubbish correctly
Use the correct bins (rubbish, recycling, green waste). Rubbish days differ per suburb — check with your local council.
Maintain your property
Mow your lawn, avoid clutter in front yards or balconies, and repair anything that might be a safety issue. For example, overgrown grass and messy backyards can attract pests or even snakes, so regular upkeep is essential for everyone’s safety.
Mind parking rules
Don’t block driveways or park too close to corners. Some areas require permits for street parking.
Control your pets
If you own pets, register them with the local council, clean up after them, and ensure they don’t make excessive noise or pose a danger.
Avoid nuisance behaviours
Playing loud music, arguing loudly, or allowing cigarette smoke to waft into neighbours’ spaces are common complaints.
Legal Guidelines You Should Know
In Australia, local councils and state laws govern neighbourhood disputes and behaviours. Here are key laws and guidelines relevant to new residents:
Noise regulations
Under the Protection of the Environment Operations Act 1997 (NSW) and its equivalents in other states, residents can be fined for excessive noise, especially during “restricted hours.”
Example from NSW: No loud music from 10 PM to 7 AM on weekdays, or until 8 AM on weekends.
Pet ownership
Under local council laws:
- Dogs and cats must be registered and microchipped.
- Excessive barking or aggressive behaviour can lead to warnings or fines.
Rubbish and waste
Each local council has specific guidelines. Failing to comply may result in:
- Fines for illegal dumping
- Warnings for incorrect bin use
Check your local council website (e.g., https://www.cityofsydney.nsw.gov.au) for schedules and guidelines.
Neighbourhood disputes
Under Community Justice Centre programs (available in all states), free mediation is available if neighbours fall into conflict. You are encouraged to talk things through before escalating to legal complaints.
Tips to build good neighbour relations
Here are some ways to stay on your neighbours’ good side:
Introduce yourself
A friendly wave and a smile when you first move in can go a long way. It also helps you better understand their backgrounds, finding common ground, and expanding your network.
Help when you can
Offer to accept parcels, water plants, or help during a crisis. You can always ask “can I help you” to offer a hand. Sometimes they refuse politely but it also establishes you as someone they can built trust and count on when help is needed.
Inform before events
Let neighbours know if you’re hosting a party or doing noisy work. A simple note on their doorstep or mailbox is a thoughtful gesture for them to be aware.
Keep shared areas clean
In apartment buildings, don’t leave rubbish in hallways or laundry areas.
Be aware of sound
Sound travels easily in thin-walled units — keep noise to a minimum and always be mindful of neighbours who may be inconvenienced.
Final thoughts
Filipino values of respect, helpfulness, and community spirit can truly shine in Australian neighbourhoods when paired with an understanding of local customs and rules. By showing consideration and being informed, you can avoid misunderstandings and even build lasting friendships.
In the end, there’s a comforting sense of peace and security when you and your neighbours genuinely respect each other’s space and needs, making your new home not just a place to live, but a place to thrive.