Aside from financial debts, another thing that worsens the situation of an OFW is having illicit affairs with fellow workers or foreigners abroad.
Truly it’s natural that loneliness pushes some Filipinos to seek companions whom can they talk and share their time with. It starts with There are frequent meetings. It may come to pass that they fall in love with each other.
If both parties have no family responsibilities back in the Philippines, nobody should become an obstacle to two lonely hearts caring for each other. But if one or both of them have families to support back home? Big trouble is certainly on the way.
Overseas lovers may want to live together. They will rent a house. Buy appliances. There are monthly expenses like payments on electric, water, telephone bills, etc. In the end, the OFW father or mother may have problems sending money to his family in the Philippines.
An additional burden begins should a woman get pregnant. But what if the woman also has marital or family obligations in the Philippines?
OFW relationships could get overly complicated if it was wrong, to begin with. But how can a homesick Filipino / Filipina deal with loneliness abroad?
josie duquiatan cordero
I for one had the same story, she left me for a guy with more money hahaha the heart break is over, now i just feel sorry for her, and still wish her happiness
Sometimes their reason that homesickness or loneliness pushes them to engage in extramarital relationship here abroad coz if youre really concern about your family and ur purpose coming here is to earn money for ur family back home besides we dont have time to go dating with our kind of busy life(job) …if your SINGLE then go and be happy but if U have kids and existing marriage in Philippines Pls be ashame , your kids look at you as a role model , ACT as one..